Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Tell me if I should Meet this guy? From online matchmaking site?

I responded to this guy from online a week ago. He called me briefly to say hi and when I asked to meet him for coffee - he told me he will be busy the whole week with work and study but will be available this Sat for coffee. So I agreed. But last week after talking to him - I asked for more pictures since in the match site the pic is very small and only of face. He never replied my email in a week. But then tonight he wrote to me "I'm not sure why you asked me for more photos after I agreed to meet you in person. That tells me that you probably want to look at some more photos and then possibly do a rethink. In any case, I would like to give you some more time. As for me, I would rather be watching the World Cup Final tomorrow".


So he just cancelled our date for coffee to say this. I think I would not give him another chance - What Do you Think?


I wrote him back saying he misunderstood me and I just wanted to exchange my photos too while we were waiting to meet.

Tell me if I should Meet this guy? From online matchmaking site?
I met my wife to be (getting married May 5th) from an online site, and I am madly in love with her and she with me. So yes, they do work sometimes. In your case, something doesn't quite sound right, as you suspect. Don't give this guy another thought. His actions speak very loudly of someone who has issues about being in control, in a bad way. He put you second to a sporting event, and then he was able to get you to write back and basically beg for him to hear your pleas for a second thought about what you innocently asked. Your request for another picture was not unreasonable by any means.


When you chat, does his english seem to be clear? I have seen several people on the internet dating sites in the past that spoke with broken english that turned out to be scammers lookin g for people to feel like they are the center of the world, and then ask for money or a plane ticket or some type of personal info that gives them the ability to suck your bak account dry. I say just forget this guy, and look for someone else.
Reply:What World Cup final? Oh, and about that, he's hiding something
Reply:definately don't give him another chance. he's insecure, and worried you aren't going to like him, and instead of giving you a chance, he cut you off. cut him off also, and don't think about him anymore. i've dated a few guys off the internet, and my most current one turned into my current boyfriend. i would have never found him if i settled for the guys that acted like jerks in their e-mails. whenever i got those kinds of reactions from guys, i totally blocked them or deleted them out if possible. there are so many nice guys out there waiting to be found, don't settle for a jerk.
Reply:Ok well you have only known him what a few weeks at the most and have barley talked. Do not meet up with him. You don't know the guy and who knows what kind of person he is. but what i get from what he says. He is a little offended by you asking for more picture. But i don't blame you tho. His statement about he would rather watch the world cup final is kinda messed up. I think he got hurt a little bit by that statement. I wouldn't meet up with him just yet but...





But if you still want to meet up with him. I would go and check to see if he has a record and see what kind of record he has. All you have to do is go to www.google.com and type in sex offenders depending on the state it will tell you if they have drug charges or sexually charges. If you know his name. I am assuming you know the town name. But type in the state name first then sex offenders.





Also just got a good check for people around your town and around your area. Go to http://www.familywatchdog.us/ I know that has nothing to do with it. Just its a use full tool.


Better safe then sorry. I wish you the best of luck girl. I hope it all works out for you the way you want. Good Luck
Reply:i won´t trust in that guy, i usually don´t answer when the pics are weird... just move on.
Reply:Never trust those sites. You hear about it all the time; these people getting raped by pedophiles %26amp;%26amp; stuff. There are sickos out there, so be careful.
Reply:No, it all sounds a bit sketchy. There's plenty of other fish in the sea than ones who probably don't have an honest picture up.
Reply:He must be a real piece of work.
Reply:in my opinion it's always going to be bad to meet someone you met online. You never know if they are exactly who they say or 100% truthful. And if he wont send you more pics or talk to you on the phone or anything deffinately dont meet him!! That's like a trap for something bad to happen. Be careful and don't meet him if he won't be open about who he is. If you really really feel like it's a good idea.. then at least meet him in a very public place and be sure to bring a few friends along so you dont get into any trouble.
Reply:Forget that guy, and get with a real man like me. hahaha I'll treat you right baby, like a queeen.


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