Married man signing up on matchmaking sights?

I am a married woman who keeps finding her husband has signed up for matchmaking sights, 6 i found so far, but he says he just looks, but his profile always saids he is divorced and makes a lot of money, he thinks i am getting upset over nothing, what do yall think?

Married man signing up on matchmaking sights?
I think he is looking for something on the side , he is putting bait out there to see if he gets a bite and if he does he will reel them in. You need to let him know that you were not born yesterday and that you are not going to be his fool,I would let him know plain and simple that you are not going to put up with it, so he needs to decides what he wants.
Reply:He shouldn't be doing that if hes married. You should be upset.
Reply:I agree with michael m. My question is this. How do you treat your husband? What would drive him to do this? Everyone just assumes he is an @sshole without imagining what he could be feeling. Do you have a relationship with him? Do you have sex more than once a month?





So many people look for validation to their questions here without examining themselves.
Reply:dump the loser
Reply:You have a right to be concerned, my ex was the same way. It was as if there was not enough external validation for him, so he had to go and find more. For him it was easy to prey upon lonely women on the internet. They wanted so much to believe and find solace in his words. Eventually he got tired of them and would move along to someone else, but, the pattern of behavior moves from just looking, to chatting with, to eventually meeting and cheating. I hope that you do not experience this, but, the two things to keep in mind here are this: 1. Regardless of what he says it is not your fault. 2. It is his malfunction, and if it progresses do not spend alot of time trying to convince him of his mistake. This is a very selfish thing that some men do, and it would not matter if you were the perfect wife, the grass remains greener in someone elses yard.





Good luck to you.
Reply:wow...! that sure hurts!
Reply:Sounds like he is seriously looking.....
Reply:Well, see, here's the thing: I check out singles sites all the time, and there ARE people whose profiles say that they are happily married and just looking for friends to chat with. Then you have scum like my ex who will tell girls that he's single, has no kids, makes tons of money, and (here's the kicker) makes that money doing cam-sex shows (which is HILARIOUS...if you only knew).


If your husband thinks you're getting upset over nothing, tell him to change his profile information if he's not willing to stop altogether. If he wants to argue about it, then do what you have to do... but don't be disappointed when you find him with someone else.
Reply:Get rid of him quickly - he has no right to treat you like this. He's selfish and uncaring. Find someone who deserves you. You're better off without him, that is a really nasty thing for him to do. Show him everyone's comments here and he might realise that he's in the wrong. I'd get rid though if i was you.
Reply:You should ditch the guy, he's a cheat and a liar. I think he needs to get real and start thinking of you, not accusing you of getting upset over 'nothing'. If this is nothing, just how far is he prepared to go?! I don't like to see marriage break down but some things are inexcusable and imho this is one of them. The internet can be a devil at times...
Reply:I think its wrong and you should be very firm with your husband about this. Not only is he mis-representing himself (at least as far as marital status- which is something most single sights frown on), but it is also disrespectful to you. Maybe tell him that if he doesn't stop, you'll make an honest man out of him.
Reply:Ditch the jerk. I wonder if he's actually met someone.
Reply:time for a divorce.
Reply:Dump this LOSER!





You have every right to be upset. He's a liar and a cheat, pure and simple. He doesn't deserve any benefit of any doubt.





Give him 5 minutes to dump the singles sites forever and then toss the bum out on his a$$ if he doesn't so it. Then call the nastiest divorce lawyer you can find and make his life truly miserable.





And if he gives you the B/S line about "trust" agree with him. You don't trust him because of what he's doing. Trust is EARNED, not given blindly.





If you can afford a private detective, put a tail on him and introduce yourself to his girlfriend as you dump his dinner in his lap.
Reply:I would be SERIOUSLY pissed off if I found out my hubby was doing that!! I would sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel, and tell him he either stops doing it or he can go sleep with the DOG!
Reply:Hmm, give him the benefit of the doubt. He is probably just insecure.
Reply:You have a right to be upset. he is not being honest with you nor is he to the women. My ex said it was just for fun you can pretend to be whomever you want and odds of meeting person is slim. Not true. He ended up meeting many of them. His latest was going to Florida to be with one, coming home and making me believe he missed me and loved me, then asking one that he never met (only chatted with for 3 months) to marry him. They do it for a reason. If you want your marriage to last the two of you really need to talk and resolve whatever is going on. Good luck
Reply:I think if I were you I would be upset to. My friend found her husband doing the same thing and let it go then she walked in on him with another woman that he met on one of those sights. I would try to find a way to block them or get some spyware to see what he is doing.
Reply:He's pretending to be a single man for one thing and is deceiving people. Including you. Me thinks I would make what he says come true and find myself a man that knows how to keep his word.
Reply:The same thing is happening to me my husband has signed up for these sites also.He is driving me nuts anyway.If he finds another woman you will be better off.God will take care of you and send you the one man who will never look at another woman.I would be putting extra money away just in case.At first I was mad but you can catch flies better by letting the land on sticky paper.
Reply:My husband is doing the same things... he has two myspace accounts.. in two states. One says he is married, thats the one I get to be friends with, and the other says he is single. He never says divorced, unless i find an email where he is talking to a girl and then he tells her that we are divorced cause we married too young.... THAT WAS NEWS TO ME!!! but I would tell him that is NOT normal and that you feel uncomfortable with it, that you feel he will cheat and it hurts your feelings. if he loves you at all, he will stop or try counselling to help...
Reply:divorce
Reply:I do NOT think this is NOTHING.





A content/happy man, doesn't LOOK.





You risk further alienating or push him away if you become combative on this.





My suggestion... if you want to keep him (assuming you haven't already lost him...) take a good look and try to figure out what he's not "getting at home"...





And provide it if you can. Because if you DON'T, he may very well FIND IT ELSEWHERE... and personals is one of a few good ways... to find prospects of women, looking to provide those needs and wants.





Good luck.
Reply:i would sign too and dump that looser
Reply:I think that in side he is single, i think you need to move on with ur life and get a divorce because he is emotionaly divorced from you already. You do not tell ne one or have single sites if you are married. They always say when ur married you can look @ the menu but u cannot order from it. Seems you need to move on hun, thats cheating!!!!!!!!! good luck
Reply:I think this is a very serious situation. If you have any chance of saving your marraige you need to throw the computer out the window. Your husband obviously cant help himself. 6????!!! 6 sites is not "just looking". Marraige counseling is a must if you want to save this thing. He obviously is looking for something and soon he will find some bimbo who will give it to him.
Reply:He is definitely fantasing!! He needs help or the need to communicate about his situation. Maybe counsellling!
Reply:I would be pissed at him. I think you have every right to be mad. Dang the nerve of him...
Reply:he is not being very faithful to u. first and for most hes lieing about your marriage obviously it doesn't mean that much to him. girl you better be careful cuz he has a motive and it has nothing with your name in it. if his marriage mattered he wouldn't be signing up on that match making sight to begin with. your to good for him!!!
Reply:You can look at matchmaking sites without signing up. Signing up for six sites is not "just looking." Something's wrong. I'd either move out or take him to marriage counseling, or both.
Reply:dont worry too much; hes probably just flirting and fantasizing... i do it

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